Last month Elaina and celebrated out 15th wedding anniversary by take a trip, without kids, to the Hawaiian island of Kauai. Elaina has been to Hawaii before, but this was my first trip, and as a public service to our readers here are some dos and don’ts* from our trip.

Fifteen years ago today we said, “I do,” and for the a decade and a half now I have reaped the benefits of marrying out of my league.